if you are lazy you will struggle if you are easily irritated or you get thrown off by strong smells or sight of blood or whatever feces and if you’re someone who struggles with taking instruction like how can she talk to me like that or who is she does she normally do you know who i am that’s really does not fly here you feel insecure or you struggle with these things really you you you’re gonna have a problem you’re gonna have a series of problemshello everybody and welcome back to the channel my name is if you’re new here or you’re just joining us for the first time you’re more than welcome please consider subscribing and remember to click on that bell notification icon that way you get notified every time i upload a new content which is at least once every week here on this channel i share content relating to my life here in the uk i also talk about my job centered around healthcare if you are interested in this kind of content please consider subscribing i also have a telegram group where i have formed a small community of people who are looking to join the healthcare team and are looking to come into the uk it’s a great way to network and interact with people who are going through the same things as you are going to and just support and encourage yourself through your journey today’s video is about some of the things that i feel if you do not possess you might struggle with this job and it’s just important to say really all right so number one thing for you to know if you are made for this health care route is if you are lazy you will struggle this job is not for someone who can’t be stressed if you are a lazy person or you struggle to keep up with energy or momentum you will definitely struggle this job keeps you on your feet keeps you as a lot it could be working with elderly people working with children you could be working with mental health residents or patients and you need to be hard working you need to be on your feet you need to be at alert really this job will keep you on your feet so that is one thing if you are a lazy person you will struggle really you will struggle point number two if you are easily irritated you will struggle especially if you work in healthcare where you have to provide personal care if you are easily irritated or you get thrown off by strong smells or sight of blood or whatever feces or you know secretion you will struggle if this job will it will shake you in that aspect because you will be exposed to these things and really there’s hardly any aspect of care that you will not encounter one of all all of these things so it is something to prepare your mind with if you are easily irritated or smells affect you or the sight of flashing images or gory things like vomit blood poop urine things like this you may not be able to avoid so if these things throw you off you might want to consider another career path point number three if you lack patience you see so in one of my interviews one of the questions i was asked was what do you think is a strong quality to have if you want to become ahca and i said patience and before i could even get the words out of my mouth the interviewer was like why is everybody saying patience today patience is like number one criteria you need because you will be tested not just your stamina and your agility and all that emotionally you will be tested um to the point where you might want to lash out you will be tested um not consciously because from experience now i can say that most of these residents or most of the things that happen are not intentionally done to irritate or throw you off i really honestly believe that most of them are as a result of the illness or the disease that they might be going through and some of them might get you to the point where you want to lash out or you feel like you need to excuse yourself from the room yes so you need a lot of restraint you need a lot of patience a lot of self-control really if you are to thrive in this job next point if you can’t take orders or can’t take correction or you struggle with taking instruction you see sometimes or most of the time in my experience the nurses are the ones who delegate the tasks for the shifts all right so when you get to work after or during handover you are allocated to where you’re going to work or if you work with agencies you already know where you’re going and the person giving you instruction might be younger than you in age or might be younger than you in experience based on where you’re coming from maybe you are already in the healthcare line or you probably have some years of experience and you’re just breaking into the uk healthcare system if you are someone who is naturally arrogant you will struggle because um getting instructions for some people um it seems to them as you know they have been um undermined or some you know some people just can’t take instructions some people struggle with following orders some people struggle with um following the set plans like for each care home there is a way they do things from interacting with agency staff who have come to work in my care home i noticed that there is a trend or there’s a way that certain things are done in certain homes so not every routine or every task is done the same way in individual places so if there is a structure on ground already and you are instructed to do a certain task a certain way and you feel like you can achieve this thing better going a different route you might land yourself in some trouble because there’s a certain way that they do things and if you’re someone who struggles with taking instruction like how can she talk to me like that or who is she does she know many do you know who i am that really does not fly here so you just have to take instructions and be a good team player because you work best when you are in a team this work you cannot do it alone you see this next point um if you come to the uk alone especially for those who come with dependent or you come with children um i’ve gotten this question more times than i can count can i come to the uk as a single mother my husband is not ready to come with us or i have two children within the age of 10 to 2 how can i survive without a partner from experience it will be quite challenging to come to the uk without another adult if you are to make maximum profit because even if you come to the uk and you choose to get a child reminder or get a babysitter or just get a nursery or a daycare to give your children for the number of hours that you will be working you will need to pay minimum wage at least minimum wage to whoever is minding your child for those for that period of time so if you are to work for 12 hours and pay someone minimum wage for maybe six hours out of those 12 hours or maybe for the duration of those 12 hours please calculate how much you take home at the end of the day so in order for you to make maximum profit you will definitely need ever your partner or your mother-in-law or your own mother you know someone you’re used to someone that can take care of your children so you need another adult if you are to make maximum profits really because it will be a shame or a waste if you have children that you have to keep in the care of a child mother or a babysitter and you have to pay this person per hour because in this country that is really how things work if you are to get a child minded you have to pay them minimum wage and it’s like you’re working and the number of hours you are earning you are also paying someone by the hour to watch your children so it’s it might be challenging really but that’s i don’t know people in the same community come together to support each other i’ve heard of these things i also benefit from them because i have been able not to fly away from me who we watch each other’s children from time to time but if you are planning to come here alone and you do not know or have anybody or don’t know any nigerian community you need someone to watch your children if you are to come here with your children next point if you are someone who is emotionally weak or unstable or you have undulating emotions if you are not emotionally strong you will struggle because i’ve said this in a number of my videos this job is emotionally draining you will come home or even during your shift because it’s for a very long time 12 hours is half a day and it is a very long time you might have an easy shift on some days you might have a very difficult shift on some other days so um having a good support system is something that has really helped me because as soon as i walk through my door i mean i don’t want to talk about work don’t ask me how my day was i just want to leave everything i’ve done and talk with the children before they go to school i just want to forget everything that i’ve done in the past two hours and just face the house because it is very emotionally draining and you need a very strong support system to be able to cope with that so if you are someone who struggles emotionally or you are easily affected by what you hear or how you’re spoken to or um you know change of events really because it might not just be one thing it might be a series of things that have not added up to something that not hits you or struck you and you’re like you mean no you know it might be challenging if you struggle emotionally so yes you need a very strong support system you need to grow emotional muscles in a manner speaking yes if you have to thrive in this in this profession yes so the next point is somewhat like the last one if you are someone who has inferiority complex or you feel insecure or you struggle with these things really you you you’re gonna have a problem you’re gonna have a series of problems because um especially for the part of the country where i’m in i stay in darlington and the number of africans that we see here are not as much i remember my first day here in darlington my husband made the same remark i was thinking in my head it was telling me how many black people have you seen or how many africans have you seen since we’ve stepped out of the house and i’m like really i have struggled to count one and that was when we moved in i mean in january so i mean hearing some things that i said to you it might not be an attack on your person really because sometimes when i hear some arguments and i ask the person if if it’s from an african and ask a person what was said to you and when i hear what was said i’m like is that all to me it doesn’t make a difference but to someone who might take it personally it might come up to you as an attack on your person because you are a certain race i don’t know but if you tend to see the racism in things you might just find this in every single thing whether or not it was intended that way but you might need to just you know deal with insecurity and inferiority complex i do not believe that someone is better than me just because of their skin so i don’t look for all of that so i do not see racism at all i hardly i’ve had experiences of racism don’t get me wrong that would be fun at that video but i’m just saying that if you struggle with insecurities you might pick up on some things that are really not there even when it’s just a normal conversation so um you might need to deal with that before you decide to go ahead with this job search the last and final point is a healthy tip that i feel like will benefit all of us i want to see all of us myself included because i’m struggling to catch up this last point is if you do not take supplements or eat fruits regularly you are going to have a problem if you have someone like me who wants to do the night shift you would need a lot of vitamins especially vitamin c and vitamin d the reason is because the vitamin d is necessary because you are going to be in bed or be asleep when the sun is up so you’re not really going to be getting that sun and you really need all of these things so you need to take supplements and boost your immunity as much as possible remember that you’re also working with your patients and they need you need to protect yourself and they need also you also need to protect the people that you’re caring for so taking your supplements drinking lots of fluids water especially um it will help you a great deal these are a few things that i feel like will help you um boost your chances when it comes to your preparations for this job if you struggle with any of these points um it’s all right i mean we all learn every day and some of these things i’ve had to deal with at some point but it is durable that is all i can say it is durable you can unlearn some of these things even if it is something that you’re currently struggling with all right so that is our time here for today’s video if you found this video helpful please share it give it a huge thumbs up let me know what you think in the comment section and i will see you in 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